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Amy Kerr's avatar

This may be the most important essay you’ve ever written.

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Emily Ley's avatar

I feel that in my bones. 🥺

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Sarah's avatar

Agreed!! This is one of your best (yet!) - so glad for your words, you express what I’m feeling and I appreciate it!

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Your Cup of Tea's avatar

I think about this All. The. Time. For a moment, I felt like we as a country were making progress in this area to now have the exact opposite in our faces seemingly every hour of the day. Having honest, open conversations, leading by example, and guiding his heart and mind the best we know how...it starts at home.

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Cindy McDonough's avatar

I have 5 children (3 boys and 2 girls). Our bonus child is a 17 year old boy who is 7 years younger than his older adult sibs. I RARELY had to contend with managing toxic masculinity when raising my older kids but not now!

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Beth Gebhard's avatar

So good and such an important message right now!

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Sonya's avatar

Working with elementary kids for years I've seen the bulldozer attitude come out from younger and younger kids and it's devastating. And now when they see it in leaders, what do we do?

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Sabrina Reis's avatar

I’d love to hear more on this. All of it is exactly it. Has anyone read Boy Mom by Ruth Whippman? I’m not finished with it yet, but it’s on this topic.

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Elspeth's avatar

Such wonderful sentiments! I think it’s so important to teach children and even adults sometimes thst being a compassionate leader is important and it’s okay to be vulnerable. I think it makes us better people and leaders.

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Marie Hartney's avatar

You took the words out of my mouth. Every thought and example that came into my head you had in the next sentence. This is powerful!! Thank you!

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